Most parents don’t walk into IEP meetings looking for red flags. 🚩 We’re just trying to get through the day and make sure our kids are supported by an IEP that does what it’s supposed to. But sometimes the biggest problems show up quietly: a goal that’s too vague, progress that isn’t really progress, or decisions being made without your input (then never implemented!).
This week, we’re sharing the IEP red flags parents most often miss — plus what to say and do next so your kiddo can get the solid IEP that they deserve!

Before you sign the IEP
Are you noticing a negative tone from someone on the IEP team, goals that don’t feel measurable, or service minutes that don’t quite add up? These are all signs something might need a closer look.
When things break down
Hearing “They don’t interact with the other kids” or “They’re too far behind?” Wondering whether your child needs a more — or less — restrictive environment, but not sure how to advocate for it?
Keeping things on track
What if my child’s teacher isn’t providing all their IEP accommodations? What if the school isn’t consistently providing my child with an aide? What do I do if the IEP isn’t being followed? Here’s how to troubleshoot common issues and get supports back on track.
Getting a little extra support
You’ve learned the red flags — now let’s make the rest a little easier. If you’re reading through the IEP and wondering if something is missing, we’ve got just the thing. Upload your IEP draft into IEP Assistant for a second set of eyes that helps you review goals, services, and accommodations, spot areas that need attention, and turn your next steps into action — with expert guidance built in. Explore IEP Assistant here.

Event recap → California’s Budget Explained
Missed our live event with Christofer Arroyo, deputy director of Policy and Public Affairs for the State Council on Developmental Disabilities, about the California budget proposal and what’s at stake for people with disabilities in California? Catch the event recap or watch the full replay video (with transcript available).
Office hours → Wednesday, January 28, 12:00 p.m. PT
If you use both private health insurance and Medi-Cal, funding your child’s therapies and medical needs isn’t always straightforward. Bring your funding questions to a special joint office hours with Director of Health Plan Advocacy Leslie Lobel and Public Benefits Specialist Lisa Concoff Kronbeck, who will share their expertise! If you’re not a member, sign up here to participate.
Undivided Conversations → Streaming on Facebook and YouTube
- Saturday, January 31, 10:00 a.m. PT → What to Do When It’s Not Working. Join us again with Non-Attorney Education Advocate Lisa Carey as she walks parents through what to do when an IEP just isn’t working. From spotting early warning signs to asking the right questions and creating a plan that truly supports your child, this conversation is full of practical, doable steps to help you advocate with confidence.

Education advocate Lisa Carey’s best tip for dealing with IEP red flags is to ask your team questions. Learn why and hear some examples in this YouTube video→
Funding for special education is increasing in California, but is it enough? Hear from Chris Arroyo in this highlight from our event last week→
This week in our private Facebook group: Independent Facilitator questions, autism representation in “Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood,” a Fragile X explainer video starring an Undivided family member, and more! Join the discussion→
Stay informed about the latest updates on disability rights, policies, conferences, and more! Connect with Undivided on LinkedIn→
Undivided Voices Podcast
Season 2, Episode 2: Behind the Scenes With a Special Education Administrator
🎙️ In this episode, Licensed Educational Psychologist and longtime advocate Daphne Zacky Bold pulls back the curtain on the biggest barriers in special education, what schools don’t always explain, and how parents can better advocate for their children. Now streaming on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and anywhere you get your podcasts.




