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April 3, 2025

All about autism: PDA, IEP supports, autism in girls, & more!

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If you’re parenting a child with autism (or any developmental disability), you know it can be so much more than making them their favorite breakfast, putting on their favorite backpack, and getting them to school in the morning. We’re constantly hoping they feel seen, supported, and connected — whether they’re bonding with a friend over a special interest, trying role-playing games like Dungeons & Dragons (D&D) that help with socialization, or learning to speak up for their sensory needs — and that they’re not just learning, but thriving. There also may be unique things to balance: emotional regulation, sensory and behavior challenges, language and communication delays, the joys and pains of adolescence, the “hidden” rules of friendships (especially in our girls with autism), personal safety…the list goes on.

So how do we show up for our kids in a way that really supports all of who they are — from medical care to school, friendships, safety, and everything in between? In our ongoing autism series, we’re diving into the real-life stuff that helps families feel less overwhelmed and a lot more supported.

Related free resources

Get the latest on diagnosis, therapies, and IEP accommodations and services — like recreational therapy. Then check out our expert tips for parents on PDA, school refusal, gestalt language processing, and more. Plus, we dive into the question: is autism different in girls?

Start your autism deep dive here

  • Autism 101
  • Autism in Girls
  • Diagnosing Autism
  • Autism and Co-Occurring Diagnoses

Heard these terms lately? Let’s explore

  • Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) 101
  • School Refusal 101
  • Gestalt Language Processing 101

Support for kiddos and parents

  • Autism Therapies and Specialists
  • School Supports and IEP & 504 Accommodations for Autism
  • Support Organizations for Parents of Kids with Autism

 

April is Autism Acceptance Month!

Whether your child is only recently diagnosed or you’ve been a part of the community for a long time, one goal we can all agree on is the need for better support. This April, we’re wearing red! The #RedInstead movement symbolizes love, passion, and the ongoing fight for a world where autistic individuals are not just seen, but truly supported.

→ Celebrate with us! Check out our article How We’re Celebrating Autism Acceptance Month for more information and ideas as to how we can support kids and adults with autism — and make a difference changing the way society supports autistic individuals too.

→ AAC software discounts for Autism Acceptance Month are here! If your child uses augmentative and alternative communication (AAC), check out these programs that are available at a discount during April 2025 for Autism Acceptance Month!

Parent win spotlight

As one of our parent members told Undivided: “I am very happy to have found Undivided and have access to their services, coaches, and educational material. It has been invaluable for myself as I navigate challenges with my son and his new autism diagnosis. I was feeling very overwhelmed and Undivided helped me feel more in control of a stressful situation.”

Undivided events you won't want to miss

What do you do when something in the IEP isn’t working?

Join us for a FREE Facebook Live event with Undivided Non-Attorney Education Advocate Lisa M. Carey on Tuesday, April 15 at 12:30 p.m. PT. Whether you’re concerned about your child’s accommodations, modifications, placement, inclusion, or something else, Lisa will share her expert tips for working with your IEP team to come up with solutions. RSVP for the event here to get the link to the livestream and the replay video→

Join us for expert office hours

Wondering about funding therapies, social-rec, and medical supplies through Medi-Cal, Regional Center, IHSS, and more? Join us for expert office hours on Wednesday, April 16 at 12:00 p.m PT with Undivided Public Benefits Specialist Lisa Concoff Cronbeck. Lisa will be available to answer your questions directly on Zoom. If you’re not an Undivided member yet, get started here to join us for office hours every week.

Tune in to these Undivided Conversations happening this week on our Facebook page:

  • Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA): Join us on Facebook Friday, April 4, at 12:00 p.m. PT as we dive into PDA with experts — what it really means, why it’s often misunderstood, and how we can better support kids and adults who experience it.
  • Autism in Girls: Join us on Facebook Saturday, April 5, at 10:00 a.m. PT in conversation with Developmental-Behavioral Pediatrician, Dr. Gupta, and Psychologist and Founder of CARE-LA, Dr. Stutman — all about autism in girls.
  • Neurodiversity-Affirming Assessments: Tune in this Sunday, April 6, at 10:00 a.m. PT as Head of Content at Undivided, Lindsay Crain, and School Psychologist, Breea Rosas, dive into neurodiversity-affirming assessments — what they are, if they’re right for your child, and how to advocate for them in an IEP meeting.

Connect with Undivided

https://stratus.campaign-image.com/images/794625000037893053_zc_v1_1701210916529_icon_fb.png Looking for advice and recommendations about a specific Regional Center, providers in your area, local events, and more? Join our private Facebook group for parents→

https://stratus.campaign-image.com/images/794625000037893053_zc_v1_1701210800713_icon_yt.png Our autism video playlist is chock full of wisdom from experts we’ve interviewed about everything from diagnosis to IEPs to behavioral therapies. Check it out on YouTube→

https://stratus.campaign-image.com/images/794625000037893053_zc_v1_1701210882908_icon_ig.png With autism often co-occurring with anxiety and other mental health concerns, it’s vital to provide support at school. Learn how IEPs and 504 plans can help→

https://stratus.campaign-image.com/images/794625000037893053_zc_v1_1701210846898_icon_li.png Stay in the loop with disability news, advocacy efforts, conferences and more. Connect with us on LinkedIn→

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